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Video Personality

Personality can be influenced by a variety of factors, including genetics, upbringing, and life experiences. While it can be challenging to completely change one's personality, it is possible to make changes and improvements over time.

Here are a few ways that someone might work to change their personality:

  1. Self-reflection: The first step in making changes to your personality is to reflect on your current traits and identify areas where you would like to improve. This might involve seeking feedback from others or engaging in introspective practices such as meditation or journaling.

  2. Set goals: Once you have identified areas for improvement, it can be helpful to set specific goals for yourself. For example, if you tend to be shy and introverted, you might set a goal to attend more social events or practice initiating conversations with strangers.

  3. Seek support: Making changes to your personality can be difficult, and it may be helpful to seek support from a therapist or trusted friend or family member. They can provide encouragement, guidance, and accountability as you work to make changes.

  4. Practice new behaviors: Changing your personality often requires changing your behavior. This might involve practicing new skills or habits, such as assertiveness, empathy, or self-control.

It's worth noting that while personality change is possible, it is a gradual process that requires sustained effort and commitment. Small changes over time can add up to significant shifts in one's overall personality.

If you were asked to describe someone's,  personality you might come up with some descriptors like:   Sweet, Gentle, Nice, Energetic, Controlling, etc

But have you considered your own personality?  Consider that for a second.

Chances are, your thoughts went to "how others would describe you."

Lets take a bit to consider your personality predilections from a deeper place now.

Maybe you have never considered it

but there are forces that drive you, often wihtout you consent or preference

consider the pleaser

the empath who feels sorry for the abusive boyfriend

the Defensive that is always expecting a fight

the controller who 

The Manipulator who

And if you saw people you know in these descriptors,

snap out of that thought process

and bring it back to a consideration of "YOU"

this conversation is just about you, and what drives you

At any given point in time you can be any personality

PERSONALITY  PREDILECTION

EMPATHY
DEFENSE
AGGRESSIVENESS
PLEASING

falseness  gain control politician
or true desire

CONTROL
manipulating, fear driven,
FEAR aggressive, hiding
INTENSITY energetic, passionate, jaded

LOVE BASED
NEGATIVITY BASED
GOSSIP, HURT PUT DOWN

 

EMPATHS

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DEFENSIVE

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AGGRESSIVE

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